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		<title>Episode 74: Identity, Authenticity, and How to be True to Your Voice</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Hey there Word Nerds! It’s the week before Christmas, and I wanted to do something a little bit different from the interviews we’ve had these many weeks. This week’s topic is something I’ve been wanting to talk about for a while and then I received a question via email from one of our listeners and I decided it was time to...  <a class="excerpt-read-more" href="https://diymfa.com/podcast/episode-74-identity-authenticity-and-how-to-be-true-to-your-voice/" title="Read Episode 74: Identity, Authenticity, and How to be True to Your Voice">Read more &#187;</a></p>
<p>The post <a href="https://diymfa.com/podcast/episode-74-identity-authenticity-and-how-to-be-true-to-your-voice/">Episode 74: Identity, Authenticity, and How to be True to Your Voice</a> appeared first on <a href="https://diymfa.com">DIY MFA</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Hey there Word Nerds!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It’s the week before Christmas, and I wanted to do something a little bit different from the interviews we’ve had these many weeks.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This week’s topic is something I’ve been wanting to talk about for a while and then I received a question via email from one of our listeners and I decided it was time to dive in.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Shout-out to Kayla for sharing a great question. I&#8217;ll paraphrase it here, but it essentially came in three parts:</span></p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">How do I know if my writing is good?</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Is there a certain amount of “literary-ness” I need to include in my writing for it to be good?</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What are the people who judge my writing (editors, agents, critics, etc.) looking for?</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In the past I have wondered the same thing. What did the readers want me to say? What am I <em>supposed</em> to write? And what if people don&#8217;t like what I have to say?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Having a strong, authentic voice boils down to who you are. Remember, too, that you are not alone in wondering about this. At some point every writer asks themselves</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">:</span></p>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Is my work any good?</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What do people want from me?</span></li>
</ol>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This question isn’t about getting published. It’s about being true to yourself.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Who are you as a writer?</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Is your author identity being authentic to who you are? You may hear a lot of advice from writing gurus telling you to “craft your authentic voice” as a way to promote your work, to better connect with people who will want to buy your book.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;"><em><strong>Authenticity is not a marketing strategy. </strong></em>It&#8217;s about being who you are.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Authenticity at it’s heart is being vulnerable, being honest with your readers. And it’s scary! Every time I share anything remotely vulnerable with you all on the podcast or in my newsletter, I’m afraid that you will like me less for doing so. But it’s never a marketing strategy for me. Vulnerability, authenticity, it’s who I really am. And it should be who you really are, too. It’s not a schtick.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Should I put on a persona as my author voice?</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So should you put on a persona as you develop your author voice? Well, I have answers for both sides of this question. Mainly, don’t try to fake your voice. You’ll end up sounding phony, and that will come across to your readers.</span></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Who are you? </strong></span>What does your natural voice sound like? That is the voice that will sparkle. Share that voice.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>What happens if you &#8220;put on&#8221; a voice and it&#8217;s actually successful? </strong>Are you prepared to stick with this voice <em>forever</em></span>? What if your agent or editor loves that persona that you’ve created? What if your readers love it? Are you going to leave them in the lurch?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>If you decide to drop this not-you voice, are you prepared to face the consequences? </strong>Suppose you &#8220;put on&#8221; a voice for a while, then </span>you decide to flip the switch. Your readers might feel like you&#8217;ve pulled bait-and-switch on them and many might ditch you then and there. More importantly you will have to work hard to earn back the trust of those readers who decide to stick with you through the switch.</li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When you try to be someone you’re not, when you’re not being true to your voice and your own goals, it will come back later to haunt you. You’ll have to ‘fess up eventually.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">So how do you “craft” your author brand then?</span></h3>
<p>I think this quote from Judy Garland sums it up best:</p>
<div class="quote"><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Always be a first-rate version of yourself instead of a second-rate version of someone else.”</span></div>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="quotesource" style="font-weight: 400;">Judy Garland</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The best version of yourself, that’s what I call your author identity, your author brand. The person you put on the page is still you, but a more focused, more coherent, less wacky and hairbrained version of you. Your author identity is like a laser beam. A laser is focused light, and your author brand is focused, crafted, still you but the strongest version of you.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Crafting the narrative of your author identity</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Can an “author identity” be truly authentic? The way you present yourself online will, of course, alway have some manner of crafting and shaping. The goal is to be as naturally you as possible.</span></p>
<div class="quote"><span style="font-weight: 400;">“To be natural is such a very difficult pose to keep up.”</span></div>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="quotesource" style="font-weight: 400;">Oscar Wilde</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As a writer, if you try to write in a voice that isn’t really your own, you’re going to become exhausted. But in being authentic, you can’t just let your voice and your focus be scattershot. You have to find your voice and your focus, and give your readers the best version of yourself.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is the true gift you give your readers. You don&#8217;t need to share <em>all</em> of you and you don&#8217;t need to to change who your are. You definitely don&#8217;t need to show your readers the hot mess that happens behind-the-scenes (unless you want to). Instead, give your readers the superstar version of you. Not the cheap knockoff, manicured version. The original heart-and-soul you.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Have a wonderful holiday season. We’ll see you soon!</span></p>
<h3><b>Resources:</b></h3>
<p><a href="https://terribleminds.com/ramble/2014/10/05/who-i-am-and-why-i-write-this-blog/" target="_blank">Chuck Wendig&#8217;s post</a> that I referred to in the podcast episode. This more recent post&#8211;<a href="https://terribleminds.com/ramble/2015/10/13/go-big-go-weird-go-you-and-fuck-fear-right-in-the-ear/" target="_blank">Go Big, Go Weird, Go You</a>&#8211;is also right on point.</p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;"><a href="https://traffic.libsyn.com/diymfa/074-DIYMFA-Radio.mp3" target="_blank">Link to Episode 74</a></span></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">(Right-click to download.)</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you liked this episode…</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Head over to </span><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/id907634664" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">iTunes</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, leave a review, and subscribe so you’ll be first to know when new episodes are available. Also, if you know anyone who might enjoy this podcast, please share!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Until next week, keep writing and keep being awesome.</span></p>
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