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		<title>How to Balance Your Fiction Writing with Writing for Pay</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Jan 2022 13:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>There are those who write for fun and those who write for pay. Ideally, as a creative writer, we can have writing that is both fun and puts money in our wallets. This may involve taking a dive into freelance writing and guest posting. But that&#8217;s a lot of writing! So, how do freelancing authors...  <a class="excerpt-read-more" href="https://diymfa.com/writing/balance-fiction-writing-with-writing-for-pay/" title="Read How to Balance Your Fiction Writing with Writing for Pay">Read more &#187;</a></p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">There are those who write for fun and those who write for pay. Ideally, as a creative writer, we can have writing that is both fun and puts money in our wallets. This may involve taking a dive into freelance writing and guest posting. But that&#8217;s a lot of writing! So, how do freelancing authors do it? How do you write all day?</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Find a Way to Separate the Two Activities</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Remember Pavlov’s dogs? The goal here is to create a similar response in ourselves that switches our brain from work mode to creating mode. There are all sorts of tricks you can use to separate the two activities.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">For example, Lori, our Operations Maven, changes both her medium and her physical location to signal a shift in the type of writing. Specifically, she switches from her desktop to her laptop or a pad of paper and moves from her office to her kitchen bar when she goes from writing for pay to writing for play.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Like superheroes, you can also change your outfit when you transition from one thing to the next. Personally, I have a set of working shoes I wear during the day and then I switch to my writing slippers when I’m ready to get creative.&nbsp;</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Write What You Love</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Be it for pay or for fun, you need to be writing about things you love. If your paid writing is far outside your sphere of expertise or you struggle to find joy in the topics you’re assigned, it’s going to be that much harder to bring up the will to write creatively after slogging through the day. Writing about subjects you love in both work and play can help ensure the creative juices keep flowing.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Find Your “Why”</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Similar to knowing and writing what you love, finding your “why” goes deeper and asks what it is that motivates you to write in each of your chosen arenas. Has it been a dream since childhood to hold your book in your hands? Do you want to be known for amazing ad campaigns for top-notch companies? Sometimes the motivation is monetary and other times it’s based on recognition that comes with being published. Knowing why you write creatively and why you write as a job can help keep up motivation when the going gets tough.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Treat them Both Like Jobs</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">No matter how good of a writer you are, you only have so many hours you can dedicate to writing in a day, only so much mental capacity. Schedule your creative writing time in the same way you would schedule writing for your clients. Give your novel or memoir the same weight and importance as your money-making words. You might also gather “coworkers” for each type of writing in the form of critique groups or business co-working groups.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When it comes to branching out from fiction to writing for pay, there can be certain pitfalls. Writing is tough. Every writer runs into frustrations, boring projects, and going cross-eyed after staring too long at lines of text on a screen. But you can make it easier on yourself by following the tips above.&nbsp;</p>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Tell us in the comments below: How do you find balance writing for fun and writing for pay?</h4>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Jeanette the Writer is a freelance editor and writer based in Dallas, TX. When not at the computer, you can find her crafting, scuba diving, or posting pictures of her cats on Instagram. Visit <a href="https://jeanettethewriter.com" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">JeanettetheWriter.com</a> for more info and follow @JeanettetheWriter on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jeanettethewriter/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> and <a href="https://www.facebook.com/jeanettethewriter/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Facebook</a> or @JeanettetheWrtr on <a href="https://twitter.com/JeanettetheWrtr" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Twitter</a>.</p>
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		<title>Finding Work-Life Balance as a Full-Time Author</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Oct 2021 12:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>As I sit here writing about how to be a full-time author AND take weekends and evenings off, creating that perfect work-life balance, there is some real irony in the fact that it is currently Saturday afternoon. But to my defense, it is just a few days before I release a new book.&#160; While September...  <a class="excerpt-read-more" href="https://diymfa.com/writing/find-work-life-balance-as-full-time-author/" title="Read Finding Work-Life Balance as a Full-Time Author">Read more &#187;</a></p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">As I sit here writing about how to be a full-time author AND take weekends and evenings off, creating that perfect work-life balance, there is some real irony in the fact that it is currently Saturday afternoon. But to my defense, it is just a few days before I release a new book.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">While September has not been a month in which I’ve only worked during the weekday, I can say that most months, I’m able to keep my working hours . . . manageable.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The truth is I’m no expert and I’d be lying if I said I didn’t work at night after my daughter went to sleep or never turned on my computer on a Sunday morning. But over the past year, I’ve made it a priority to strive toward work-life balance and I’ve learned that I’m far more effective when I’m rested and not overworked. I don’t write particularly well at midnight. I don’t do anything particularly well at midnight, except binge Netflix and then regret staying up until two because my body doesn’t allow me to stay asleep past 7 am no matter what time I go to bed.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">So yes, I’m writing this on a Saturday, but yesterday I took the day for myself. I spent the afternoon with a friend, relaxed, had a lovely dinner, came home, tackled a few emails, and then spent the rest of the evening with my family. I traded Friday off for a Saturday workday and, to me, that is one of the best things about having an author’s schedule.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">It wasn’t always like this.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The first five years of my writing career were a blur of deadlines, late nights, and juggling two jobs. I was hungry for storytelling, my brain was on fire with ideas, and I sucked at time management. I tried to work from 8pm until midnight, then sleep, go to my day job, where I would forgo lunch so I could squeeze in twenty minutes of authoring, then sneak in another hour before I drove home, picked up my daughter, tried to mom and make dinner, and tackled bedtime with a child who thought sleep was for the weak.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Wash, rinse, repeat.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Needless to say I became an overworked, overwhelmed shell of a person. I knew that even after I quit my day job, I’d have to figure out the best way to manage my time and while I’m not a master, I think I’ve come up with effective strategies for creating a work-life balance.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Have a Plan and Write It Down</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Lists are your friend.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I love lists. They’re a visual reminder of what needs to be done and every time I put a checkmark beside an item, I experience a surge of gratification. I start most days with a list, especially if I have a number of things that need my attention. I organize the list from most important/pressing to least important.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Some days I get everything done. Some days the least important items get moved to the following day. But making a list keeps me accountable and helps me stay focused.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Set Realistic Goals</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Pick a writing goal that is manageable for you. If you’ve never written ten thousand words in one day, don’t set that as a goal. I think the most I’ve ever written in one day is 8k and the next day I was basically useless. I was exhausted and my brain felt like it was leaking out of my ear. I had that one banner day, but was it really worth it in the long run? Probably not.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When I was writing part-time and working another job, it was very, very challenging to move projects ahead. Carving out writing time between family obligations, work, and life can be difficult. Writing time is precious, and setting reasonable word goals is essential to avoid feeling defeated. Some authors can write like the wind, some plod along slowly.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Know your pace, set your goals accordingly.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Set Long and Short Term Goals</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I’m a planner. To a certain degree.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I like to know what I’m going to write and when. I work with multiple publishers which means I’m often juggling multiple projects and deadlines. We block off time for each project, including the brainstorming, writing, and editing phases. Over the years we (my agent and I) have modified and adjusted my writing schedule based on the evolution of my writing.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When I’m scheduling writing months, or time to write, I’m also taking into account when I’m going to receive edits for different projects. When I can slot things into timelines, set reminders, and make sure those goals are realistic and attainable, it’s much easier to find work-life balance and compromise with my time.</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Know Yourself and Learn from Your Mistakes</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I can’t work on two projects at the same time. My brain does not work that way. I get overloaded and I can’t accomplish anything.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">This month has been particularly heavy. I have a book to finish writing, but with so many other projects requiring my attention I need to set it aside until next month. Is that hard to do? Absolutely. But I have deadlines to meet. And stepping back gives me space and perspective.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">It takes time to learn your process. This year I made a rookie mistake. I’m eight years into this career. I should know better. But I made a decision in February and I’m feeling the ramifications of that now. I tried to cram too much into my schedule and while in the end it turned out okay, I’m aware I don’t want to lock myself into another unforgiving writing/publishing schedule moving forward.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The important part is learning from mistakes so you can avoid repeating them.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Give Yourself Grace</h3>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">We’re all human. Some days we just aren’t the most productive versions of ourselves. Life happens. We need to grocery shop. We need to have coffee with a friend. We need to sit on the couch and do nothing. And guess what? That’s perfectly okay.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Writing is my full-time job. And at the beginning, I felt like I needed to account for every single hour in my day. I don’t think it helped that writing is one of those careers where people have these romantic notions that we all sit around waiting for the muse to hit and ponder our existential existence.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I work my butt off.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">For a while, I felt like I needed to prove that I was, in fact,, working. All the time.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Now when I’m on deadline, sometimes my work hours are longer, but for the most part I’ve learned to break it all down into manageable pieces. The work is still going to be there tomorrow. Life, on the other hand, is fleeting, so remember to appreciate it and the people in yours.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Find your balance.</p>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Tell us in the comments below: How do you manage a work-life balance?</h4>



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<p class="has-text-align-left wp-block-paragraph">New York Times and USA Today bestselling author Helena Hunting lives outside of Toronto with her amazing family and her two awesome cats, who think the best place to sleep is her keyboard. She writes all things romance &#8212; contemporary, romantic comedy, sports and angsty new adult. Some of her books include Meet Cute, Pucked, and Shacking Up. Helena loves to bake cupcakes, has been known to listen to a song on repeat 1512 times while writing a book, and if she has to be away from her family, prefers to be in warm weather with her friends. Learn more at <a href="https://helenahunting.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://helenahunting.com</a>, or catch up with her on Twitter: @helenahunting </p>
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