To Find Your Motivation, Ask “How Can I Make This Happen?”

To Find Your Motivation, Ask “How Can I Make This Happen?”

Are you struggling to form a writing habit? Do you find yourself saying “I should be writing regularly” but never doing anything about it?  You know what? That kind of resistance is totally normal. Resistance invades the artistic process at every level. In fact, resistance is so pervasive that Steven Pressfield wrote a book about… Read more »

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Why You Should Stop Using the Word “Should”

Each January, I watch the world celebrate “Should.” We begin the month obsessed with our “shoulds.” I should lose weight. I should write my book. I should clean my house more. Maybe that last one is just me? It can’t be! Encouraged by the world, we take all of our “shoulds” and turn them into… Read more »

reframing rejection

Strategies for Reframing Rejection

As authors, surviving rejection is one of our top challenges. However, by reframing rejection, we can bolster our dedication instead of allowing it to chip away at our souls. What is Reframing?  Reframing means looking at something from another angle. When we use our imagination to view an issue from another direction, the fear or… Read more »

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#5onFri: Five Ways to Trick Yourself into Writing

Do you rebel against yourself? Me too. Sometimes I have to trick myself. I’ll decide to do something that seems so good for me. I’ll purchase books and watch webinars and do the research and decide, That’s it! That’s the thing that will change my life for the better! Then, as I embark upon the… Read more »

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#5onFri: Five Creativity Exercises to Fire up Your Writing Muse

We think of inspiration arriving in a flash, a moment where the rabbit appears from the magic hat as if from nowhere. Those creative lightning strikes hit each of us occasionally. We know we can’t rely on their appearance. But what if we could? Creativity exercises foster conditions that make inspirational lightning strikes more likely…. Read more »